You may have always dreamed about what your wedding may be,
or perhaps it feels like your engagement ring must have magic powers, making
your wedding the only thing on your mind. As your daydream becomes more vivid,
filled with crystal and floral details you likely are NOT thinking about how
this dream becomes reality. After assigning a budget, and hiring all of the
vendors comes the real work, coordinating all of the details and executing them.
Somewhere along the road though you will stop and wonder “When did planning
this wedding become so stressful?” Simple, as your dream becomes reality, you
want everything to be perfect and it is hard to put your trust in others to make
that happen.
Often times the tension leading up to the big day is so
enormous that brides cannot wait for their wedding day to be over! Brides miss
out on the opportunity to spend cherished time with friends and family, take in
the magic of the day, savor each moment as they promise their lives to their
new husbands and simply enjoy themselves.
Much of this stress is alleviated by hiring a professional
to handle the execution of your wedding. Planners often have a variety of
planning packages to accommodate your wishes. They can stand by your side from
the beginning advising on vendor selections, or come in during the few months
leading up to the wedding to coordinate all of your details. You do not want to
burden your close friends or family members with these responsibilities. You
want them to have fun too!
Here are just a few responsibilities a planner should take
off of your place:
- Load
in / Load out – your planner will confirm that vendors are arriving on
time and providing the services you paid them for.
- Point
of contact – you wont have twenty different people coming up to you, you
will only have one! Your planner.
- Less
Clutter – Planners are organized and will keep all of the information, from
you and all of your vendors organized.
- Communication
– Planners will tell people (your wondering new mother-in-law, the
groomsmen who just needs one more drink) where they need to be, and what
they need to do in a professional manner. You won’t want to be stern to
get them lined up for your entrance, but planners have a way of making
this happen.
- Acting
as a sheild – Parents tend to be extra sensitive during your big day. The
napkin layout might upset your mom, the clothes the DJ is wearing might
offend your dad. At the end of the day, you don’t have to hear about it,
your planner will listen to your family, talk to your vendors, and make
sure you don’t hear a word about it.
Let your day be filled with love, laughter, happy tears and
memories to last a lifetime!
BBFN,
Olivia
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